FWB is a private social club in Los Angeles founded by queer women for open-minded people to meet, explore, and play.

We host a variety of workshops, social, and play events. While we are a kink-friendly community, we are not so much kink-focused. Our play events are more rooted in sensual exploration and play.

Our workshops are typically 5-25 people.

Our socials range from 10-100 people.

Our play events range from 10-30 people, with most being around 15.

1. Apply online

2. Attend a new member interview with a member of our team

3. Purchase a membership.

4. RSVP to an event and purchase a ticket.

All attendees must submit an application and be approved prior to RSVPing or attending an event. We recommend at least 2-4 weeks lead time for approval, and longer if you are applying as a single straight man without a member referral.

You can read more about what's included in our membership here.

Our community represents a broad variety of shapes, sizes, colors, orientations, genders, and preferences.

Our community identifies as:

47% women / femme

7% trans / nonbinary

46% men / masc

77% LGBTQ+

You can read our event ground rules here.

Our play events require a membership to attend. All members must complete an application and member interview and be approved to attend.

People under 25 are not allowed to join fwb social club.

Our clubhouse is located in Downtown Los Angeles. Unless otherwise stated, all of our events are located in Downtown.

We provide a coat check and space to store your belongings. Feel free to bring changes of clothes, snacks, drinks, and toys. All of our events are BYOB.

We provide light snacks, mixers, condoms, barriers, lubes, wipes, and other playtime accoutrement.

Of course! We pride ourselves on being newbie friendly and have designed our programming to be inclusive of a wide-range of experience.

Drugs, weapons, and unapproved guests are not permitted at fwb events.

Our guest policy varies event to event. As a general policy, all attendees of play events must be approved members. When RSVPing for an event, check the event page for details on the guest policy for that specific event.

While we strongly encourage all of our members to get regular STI screenings, we do not require proof of STI results to attend our parties. We provide black wristbands to people who have shared negative STI results for HIV 1 & 2, hepatitis B & C, gonorrhea, chlamydia, and syphillis from the past 30 days. You can email, text, telegram, or share your results in person with staff at the event to receive your wristband.

There are so many risk-free ways to engage in pleasure at our events (massage, sensual touch, watching, good conversation etc). If you’re unsure of your status, we encourage you to err on the side of caution for the health and safety of yourself and our community.

We take safety very seriously at fwb. We do our best to create a safe container, and rely on our members to help us keep our community safe. If you see something, feel unsafe in a particular situation or with a specific person, please alert us in-person at the event or via email or text later. We ban members who violate our ground rules.

When reported behavior is in the gray area (not explicitly breaking any ground rules, but flirting with the line, or generally making people feel uncomfortable), we privately reach out to the member with a warning and the opportunity to discuss, learn, and improve their behavior for future.

Read more in our ground rules.

Events that permit alcohol are BYOB.

Over-intoxication is not permitted at events. Anyone who over-consumes will be asked to leave for the safely of themselves and the community.

If you are nervous, we encourage you to remain sober so you can be fully present.

You can check the fwb app and member dashboard for events. All events require you to RSVP and reserve a ticket through Luma.

The first 5-10 members to rsvp to an event are guaranteed a spot, then we curate the guest list for a healthy balance of genders, sexualities, and interests.

If you have not received a confirmation email, you are not confirmed for the event.

Yes! Absolutely. We offer bennies (fwb credits) for every person you refer who is approved and purchases a membership.

Memberships are non-refundable. You may cancel your memberships at any time from your Account Dashboard.

Event tickets are non-refundable. If you need to cancel a RSVP, please reach out to us at friends@fwb.events. Cancellations with at least 24 hours notice may be credited with Bennies (fwb credits) for future use.

FWB members who repeatedly RSVP for events that are included in their membership and cancel last minute/no-show may have their membership tier downgraded.

Yes! Most of our events are inclusive to all genders and sexualities.

We do host some events that are exclusive to people who identify as women, femmes, and/or LGBTQ. Always check the event details to ensure you are welcome at a specific event.

While we occasionally have themed evenings, most of our attendees show up in casual but comfy clothes.

We have a dressing room if you wish to change in / out of different attire for play time.

Yes! Absolutely. Book here.

Members receive a discount on booking.